by Joe Taylor Licensed Marriage Family Therapist The majority of couples that come for marriage (or couples) counseling say they need to communicate better with their spouse. I agree. Even the best of relationships can benefit from some help in this area. I try to remind couples about the importance of really listening when they are having a conversation with… Read More
3 Ways to set flame to the sparks in your Marriage.
Time seems to slip away as we are consumed by the tyranny of the urgent in our lives. We are driven to be the best mothers and fathers to our children, complete our work at our place of employment with integrity and passion, take care of extended family and have valuable close friendships. This list is not exhaustive and does… Read More
Expressing your Emotions
When I’m explaining expression of emotions to couples, I like to begin with the differences between men and women. Observation of women and men over a few decades has turned up the discovery that there is a significant difference. I bet you have noticed that! There are always exceptions, but generally speaking women are more in touch with how they… Read More
If not for fear, what would you do?
President Franklin D. Roosevelt, during one of his four inaugural speeches uttered some famous lines about fear; “So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.” Some commentators look into the events of the… Read More
The Art of Listening Well
Listen Well. Most people have the misconception that they’re listening, but what we’re really doing is thinking about what they’re going to say when the other person stops talking. If you’re upset, it might be difficult, but try really listening to what the other person is saying. Do your best to avoid getting defensive. Don’t interrupt. Focus on just hearing what is being said…. Read More
Friendships Make Us Better
Friendships can enrich your life, but did you know that they can even improve your health? This short article, put out by the Mayo Clinic, tells us about the benefits and difficulties of friendships, as well as how to develop and maintain lasting relationships. Remember, it’s never too late to build new friendships or reconnect with old friends. Investing time in making… Read More
